I
apologize that I didn't take any interesting photos this week. Some
interesting things did occur, however. I'll start with last Sunday.
In the afternoon, there was a knock at my door and I opened it to
find one of my private students (eight-year-old Amy) and a teenage
girl. This girl introduced herself as Amy's sister and I soon learned
she was actually her half-sister. Shelly, as she told me her English
name is, stayed for an hour. At first she stood looking embarrassed
in my living room and said, "I want to make friends with you."
I was surprised when despite her limited oral English abilities and
obvious discomfort, she was able and willing to open up and share a
lot with me. She's a Senior 3 student (equivalent to an American
senior in high school) at my school. Sadly, Senior 3 students do not
receive oral English classes because they are preparing for their
college entrance exams and this exam tests them on English grammar
but not spoken English.
Shelly
shared about her family background, some conflict she's had with her
father, and her hopes and dreams. She must be very artistically
talented because she showed me an acceptance letter from the best art
university in China. She studies acting. I felt for her when she told
me that her father loved Amy more than her, but she was glad that at
least her grandma loved her best. She fears that her father won't let
her go to the university she was accepted to.
It
will be interesting to get to know her better in the future. She
invited me to eat at her grandma's house next Sunday and to go to
cinema sometime.
On
Monday, I was surprised when Mr. Wu invited me to dinner at his home,
after he had just treated me at a restaurant two days prior. I had a
wonderful time with him and his wife again. It's funny to watch them
interact. His wife doesn't speak any English and only understands
"Hello" and "Thank You". Mrs. Wu is a great cook.
She made a traditional noodle dish and I watched her slice the
homemade noodle dough. It was really good! Before the meal, as
before, Mr. Wu treated me to fruit. This time after consuming a
banana, three-fourths of an orange, and two jujubes I told him that I
wanted to save room for the noodles! After the meal more food came
out. Even though I had said, "wǒ
bǎo le" (I'm full) three times they offered me more fruit,
which I didn't take, but I couldn't refuse the walnuts, cashew
kernels and raisins.
On
Tuesday I had lunch with my student Drogon and his parents. He came
to my office on Monday afternoon and said that the music teacher told
him about my piano skill. He then asked if he could learn from me! He
invited me to play the piano at his home after the meal. However, we
ended up eating at a restaurant. I instantly liked his parents. His
dad speaks only Chinese, but I could tell he was quite humorous, and
his mother is an primary school English teacher.
They
waited for Drogon and I at the restaurant and had ordered way to much
food, because they wanted to make sure I would like enough of the
dishes. One interesting food I had was what they called “corn
bread”. It was sweet corn glued together with a very sugary
translucent substance and sliced in triangles like pizza. Drogon's
mother invited me to have lunch with them everyday and to travel with
them during the holiday. Before I was done eating, Drogon got up and
said he had to go take a nap so that he wouldn't fall asleep in class
later. Most of the people here take a nap of between 10 minutes to an
hour in the afternoon. I knew that but it still seemed weird to me.
Thursday
night I returned to the mini hot pot restaurant with Erika, Bob and
Todd. While we were waiting in line to pay for the food and go to our
table, a young woman in front of us turned around and said, "Hi!
Do you remember me?"
I
did. We met on the bus maybe a month ago. She told me she had had
several foreign friends in the past but recently had not had the
opportunity to practice English. We talked until the bus reached my
stop. A few seconds before that she asked for my phone number. I
didn't mind giving it to her but I don't have my number memorized and
I couldn't reach for my phone in time. It was in the bottom of my
bag, underneath my groceries (in China, ever since the 2008 Olympics,
customers at supermarkets have had to pay for plastic bags. If I can fit
everything I buy in my bag, then I don't ask for a plastic one). At
the restaurant, Angel was very happy to get my number.
After
dinner I went to Vanguard, the largest supermarket with imported
food, because Bob told me they had been selling margarine for the
past few weeks. I was excited to find it. I
also found some Chinese Herbal Jelly that I picked up on a whim. The
ingredients intrigued me: water, cane sugar, grass jelly, honey,
tuckahoe, taraxacum, honeysuckle, liquorice, tortoise, mint,
lohankuo. It's supposed to have cooling properties according to TCM.
Friday
night brought me the opportunity of eating a home cooked meal at
Jane's house with Erika and Todd. Bob drank a bit much the night
before so he didn't show. While Jane cooked, Erika taught Todd and I
to play mahjong, a popular game that was born in China. I've seen
retired people gathered together to play it on the streets.
Saturday
might as well have been Monday. My school ran the Monday class
schedule, so I had to teach five classes, after which I was simply
ready for a nap. I wasn't ready for one in the afternoon when I was
compelled to take one, however. Drogon's mother called me during a
break between my classes to invite me to lunch again. She said her
son didn't know. I took the bus after my last class at 11:10 and met
Drogon's dad who walked with me to their apartment, which turned out
to be quite close to mine, near the vegetable market I shop at. The
three of us were eating when Drogon walked in after his last class at
noon. He stood and stared for a moment, obviously very surprised to
find me in his home. However, after the shock wore off he was glad
that I was there so that I could play the piano for him. After I
played one he insisted on another before his nap. Then his mother
said I could rest on the bed in that room and after Drogon went out
she closed the door.
The
reason for the extra school day is International Labor Day on
Tuesday. We have Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday off for it.
Tomorrow
(Monday), I'll go to the Yellow River Stone Forest with Drogon's
parents and on Tuesday I'll go to Lanzhou with Erika and Bob. So, I
promise to post some beautiful photos!